The Thing About Tolerance

I am in some Facebook groups and also in other portals in some groups and I noticed one thing not everywhere, where tolerance is on it is also tolerance in it.

How do I now come to the assumption that tolerance is not equal to tolerance, as an attentive reader of postings sometimes one thing stands out.

Understanding and Tolerance

Many people wish for their behavior or their way of thinking, but understanding and tolerance can in no way grant it to others and they also like to make it known.

Because with everything that does not suit them or is contrary to them, it is often pointed out vigorously and heartily that you do not do this, that you should probably leave this better and that you do not do this anyway.

You like to use it in combination with cheap and slut, slut and so on and so on.

For my part, I often think to myself why I'm in a group that has written tolerance on the flag and your posting, which I don't like, I can't just go and write or say that it's not possible, that you don't do such a thing, that you don't like it, that it's cheap and you haven't seen it.

This behavior would not be tolerant or have as much to do with tolerance as a one with a house.

Mare bite

It's mostly women or young girls who post something like that, who also like to react to young women like that, someone once told me that had something to do with mare bite.

A nice analogy from the animal kingdom because female horses can sometimes be extremely bitchy towards conspecifics, especially if they have the same sex.

I cannot explain to myself exactly where this comes from, whether this is the envy that one woman trusts something that the other would not trust, or whether it is really the outrage over what has been said or seen.

I mean, we live in an age where it doesn't take two minutes to get to any kind of pornography and then you get over a bit of bare skin where you can't even tell what's going on.

When a young woman posts a photo with a deep décolleté, then come two reactions: one is boah horny tits and the other is how can you be so cheap.

Of course, there are exceptions, that would be the third reaction and that is, if the photo is also successful and just beautiful to look at then other people say that this is also sexy or beautiful to look at and I think if this is his wife, so another woman says it has a different weight than if this is said by a man.

I'm not saying that men can't judge this, only some men say more than they should just to have the opportunity or the touch of a chance to please.

But back to the photo, what is the consequence of this, if on the one hand you react like this, if you have a thick skin, then they don't care, but on the other hand you can also scrape big and stand herbs because I am in a group in which tolerance is capitalized and then you react so consistently in tolerant that can be hurtful.

Social life with people is always such a thing, it is always a question of definition and somehow always a question of the majority of what is cheap and what is pretty and sexy.

And I think on the Internet, this filter is even more blatant and much more intense, because you really don't perceive the other person so most just dare to say what they think, what they feel or how they can hurt right now.

Sadness, bitterness and also self-hatred

I believe for my part and this is now my subjective opinion, there is often sadness, bitterness and also self-hatred, when above all young women, other women so downplay and reduce to some skin, it is probably the lack of fortune to deal with their own shortcomings.

I also know something like this as a man, but I think we see it a bit looser, because if a woman has too small or too large breasts, she can reach for knives relatively easily, as a man you have a little more problems with a too large or too small penis.

Yes, the comparison is good, but he already makes it clear what I wanted to say.

How are your experiences? How do you deal with such a thing? Or how do you think about it, write it in the comments.

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