Die Abschweifung 028 Die Kommunikationschallenge: Zwischen uns und der Welt

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00:00 - 0:00:14 [Music]
0:00:14 – 0:00:18 Yes hello and welcome to a new episode of digression.
0:00:18 – 0:00:27 From time to time, I've been thinking about the topic "Oh, no matter what, I'm always digressing".
0:00:27 – 0:00:34 Yes guys, today's topic is communication between man and woman.
0:00:34 – 0:00:41 Or, to put it more generally, between two partners.
0:00:41 – 0:00:46 In my case husband and wife.
0:00:46 – 0:00:54 That's a big difference, whether you're with a friend, a friend,
0:00:54 – 0:00:59 A best friend, a best friend, speaks.
0:00:59 – 0:01:05 Or is it really your life partner?
0:01:05 – 0:01:14 Because there are some barriers to communication, problems.
0:01:14 – 0:01:19 You say something, you think it's nice and sweet,
0:01:19 – 0:01:24 And that is totally misunderstood.
0:01:24 – 0:01:32 The critical issues are always very problematic to address.
0:01:32 – 0:01:40 I've been on this list for two years now.
0:01:40 – 0:01:48 And I've always thought, oh no, that's boring, that doesn't matter anyway.
0:01:48 – 0:01:53 And now I've moved on to talking about it,
0:01:53 – 0:02:06 Because I have noticed that misunderstandings really occur in my communication.
0:02:06 – 0:02:11 I think as a man, that is, a man who is read male,
0:02:11 – 0:02:21 I think that's how we say it these days, sometimes I think things are funny or appropriate,
0:02:21 – 0:02:30 But then, conversely, find my girlfriend to be extremely inappropriate.
0:02:30 – 0:02:35 And vice versa.
0:02:35 – 0:02:43 There are a few problem areas, problem areas, let's say, with her and me.
0:02:43 – 0:02:49 And when you talk about it or something like that, you're generally already hypersensitive.
0:02:49 – 0:02:54 And you can't say anything at all, because no matter what you say,
0:02:54 – 0:02:59 And even if it's a compliment, it's misunderstood.
0:02:59 – 0:03:05 And I find that extremely exhausting and complicated.
0:03:05 – 0:03:08 And so in recent times.
0:03:08 – 0:03:16 This communication is so exhausting, because everything somehow turns into eternal discussions.
0:03:16 – 0:03:20 Not that then not that love had changed or anything else,
0:03:20 – 0:03:30 But anyway, at the moment everything and everyone is such a huge topic of discussion.
0:03:30 – 0:03:39 This is sometimes unbelievable and exhausting, because I constantly have to be careful,
0:03:39 – 0:03:48 How I say something, how I formulate something without my partner feeling attacked.
0:03:48 – 0:03:55 I know I'm painting a terrible picture of this woman now, but that's not the case.
0:03:55 – 0:04:01 Because basically this is really a very nice, nice and warm-hearted person.
0:04:01 – 0:04:09 Only I don't know, at the moment everything that could be addressed is dangerous.
0:04:09 – 0:04:17 And somehow their demands on all sorts of things have increased drastically,
0:04:17 – 0:04:24 I don't know, really, I don't know what's going on.
0:04:24 – 0:04:36 But on the communication level alone, there are so many things that I find extremely exhausting.
0:04:36 – 0:04:48 So I've always had the feeling that certain subject areas are very exhausting,
0:04:48 – 0:04:56 It is difficult and difficult to deal with partners.
0:04:56 – 0:05:03 And this is not only the case with the current one, this was also the case with past ones.
0:05:03 – 0:05:09 There are times when a look can be wrong.
0:05:09 – 0:05:18 And I have to say, I feel like I'm stopping, as so often in the past,
0:05:18 – 0:05:22 I give more than I get back from a relationship.
0:05:22 – 0:05:29 And when I'm there, I'm personally pissed off about something,
0:05:29 – 0:05:36 Then I am immediately told, and this has always been the case, as the greatest state crime.
0:05:36 – 0:05:40 Like I'm torpedoing relationships or something.
0:05:40 – 0:05:47 And that, I think, makes communication with life companions so incredibly difficult.
0:05:47 – 0:05:54 If I have a problem now, then I say the problem, suggest a solution
0:05:54 – 0:06:03 and then expect it to be an argument, a counter-argument, or even a counter-argument.
0:06:03 – 0:06:07 For my position, for my argument.
0:06:07 – 0:06:11 And not that you have to go first and that for hours.
0:06:11 – 0:06:15 When I say hours, I mean hours.
0:06:15 – 0:06:22 So sometimes there may be six or eight hours of this one topic of discussion.
0:06:22 – 0:06:31 And that's so terribly exhausting, because you're more or less just spinning in circles.
0:06:31 – 0:06:39 And that's one thing where I personally really wonder,
0:06:39 – 0:06:44 Is all this shit worth it?
0:06:44 – 0:06:51 And on the other hand, of course, you have fulfillment and happiness and peace and beauty
0:06:51 – 0:06:57 And much more beautiful, more beautiful than negative.
0:06:57 – 0:07:01 But still, this communication can be extremely complicated.
0:07:01 – 0:07:06 And I think why ever.
0:07:06 – 0:07:15 That this is phased, I can understand if you have a lot of problems and a lot of stress.
0:07:15 – 0:07:25 And there has been a lot of that in the past, a lot in my partner's life lately.
0:07:25 – 0:07:32 But the fact that this is only now, that is exhausting.
0:07:32 – 0:07:35 Yes, that's communication.
0:07:35 – 0:07:39 And I honestly haven't strayed that much,
0:07:39 – 0:07:48 Because I don't know what to say about it now,
0:07:48 – 0:08:00 Because I think I just did the digression without much digression.
0:08:00 – 0:08:06 And I think eight minutes is perfectly fine, too.
0:08:06 – 0:08:11 Yes, then I thank you for listening and if you are interested in such things
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0:08:42 – 0:08:46 Jo, thank you for listening and goodbye.
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0:09:09 – 0:09:24 [Music]

In this captivating episode of digression, we tackle a topic that affects all of us and at the same time poses one of the greatest challenges in interpersonal relationships: Communication between life partners. Whether man and woman, man and man, woman and woman or any other type of partnership, the way we talk to each other has a crucial impact on the success of our relationship.

Our charming host opens the door to a universe full of hidden nuances and surprising twists in the way we talk to our life partners. With his engaging narrative and personal anecdotes, he takes you on a journey through the mysterious mazes of human understanding.

We all know that communication is the key to any successful relationship, but why is it often so complicated? Why do seemingly harmless remarks sometimes lead to great misunderstandings? Why are we sometimes so hypersensitive in conversations with our life partners? We get to the bottom of these questions in this episode.

Our host does not take a leaf out of his mouth and speaks openly about the challenges that can occur in communication. He highlights how well-intentioned words can lose their meaning in the heat of the conversation and how even small misunderstandings can build up to big problems.

But don't worry, this episode isn't just a treatise on the difficulties of partnership communication. Our host is also looking for solutions and shows how we can make our conversations in the partnership more effective and harmonious. He shares practical tips and insights that can help you deepen your relationship and minimize misunderstandings.

Prepare for an exciting and sometimes humorous journey that encourages you to see with new eyes the way you communicate with your life partner. You will realize that you are not alone with these challenges, and that there are ways to improve communication in your relationship.

This episode of digression will deepen your understanding of interpersonal relationships while keeping you well entertained. You will learn how to make conversations with your life partner more successful in the future and how to strengthen the connection between the two of you.

So grab your favorite headphones, make yourself comfortable and immerse yourself in this captivating episode of digression. You'll be surprised at how much you can learn about the art of communicating in partnerships. And who knows, maybe you'll find the key to even more harmony and love in your own relationship.

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“Whether man and woman, man and man or woman and woman, communication between life partners is sometimes difficult. Podcaster Sascha Markmann talks about the communication problems in his own relationship. His impression: Often, men or male-read people say something that women or female-read people understand quite differently. In the podcast ‘Die Abschweifung’, Sascha Markmann presents his tips on how to avoid misunderstandings and bring more harmony into a relationship.’
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Sascha Markmann is a creative mind with a moving biography – and a person who has rediscovered life after a stroke. After working as a paramedic and elderly caregiver, Sascha found his way into creative expression. As a blogger, podcaster, musician and visual storyteller, he brings together things that just don't fit at first glance: He combines his keen enthusiasm for technology – from self-hosted servers to electronic music production – with emotional depth and an oblique sense of humor. His contributions are somewhere between borderline, acid basslines and assistance – honestly, directly and with a wink. Guiding principle: “Audio-visual dullness with no usefulness – but perhaps that's why it's so valuable.” View all posts by Sascha Markmann

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