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Hello and welcome to the radio channel
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where stories are unmistakably conveyed
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Today's topic will be
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Loneliness in the relationship
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I mean the weather wanted one or
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Others also know this feeling I know
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Not like most of them.
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People are like that, but with me it's like that.
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I am a Borderline Personality
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I can feel the feeling of
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Rejection of whether this is true or not
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I just felt it or I want it.
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It's a bad one or I'll go with it.
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very badly around and this results in
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Problems in the relationship if yes
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By chance or by behavior
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The partner may not be completely
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I am aware of the feeling he
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Now it can be that way too
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that man lies in the common bed
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the partner had a busy
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tag and it's just broken and there
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Turning to his preferred
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sleep side and is just broken
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Strive and want to sleep and I'm lying
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In fact, I feel a few
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Don't love me why he's cuddling now
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Not with me or anything like that.
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I have been in the past again and again
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Preferably with a partner
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who work
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In the current relationship, I have
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In other words, my
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Friends have feelings, for example.
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Situation at sleep
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I have a favorite side of
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I'm going to sleep and now it's so
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He turned away from her, and when
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I've been here all day
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The apartment, which I almost did
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Then we hurt the back.
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Maybe the hip hurts the two
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It's hard and I like a song like that.
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half on my belly and that's mine
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Preferential Sleep Side
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It's not that there's something
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could be emotional so I loved
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My girlfriend continues to do so and so on.
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It's not always easy
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This creates a feeling of what
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It wouldn't have to be I have it
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Trying to myself again and again
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explaining
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So that holders kindnesses
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Tenderness is there and you can
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So much to explain logically what you
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It feels different and in a world.
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in one of my emotional worlds
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They are, of course, very confused.
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You will be very upset at the
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The smallest smallness is respected and many
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tempered that is sometimes really
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It's exhausting, and I think it's too.
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For someone whose partner you can also
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not always so easy
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I made the decision for myself
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caught sometime
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I don't talk anymore I'm me
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Take the Observational Position 1
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Now it could be counterproductive.
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If you're looking at my past
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When I look at relationships, I mean three.
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Years and eight years are already
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Longer but relationships are there
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ended
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and I would say that my strategy
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Absolutely successful
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I think you have to talk about it too
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when it is extremely unpleasant and difficult
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It's because only people can talk.
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Helping where the other
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Know what you feel as me out of my
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current partner and referred to
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I tried to do this here
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explaining
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[Music]
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If you now understand it, believe it.
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I
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whether she accepted it for herself
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I think less
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There are rituals, and that's for you.
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Ritual in another partnership
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It's a ritual for customers.
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chew to scratch then caress and
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then you fall asleep
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With her, the ritual is mutually exclusive.
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watching
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Christian here kissing there and getting good
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Wishing for the night
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[Music]
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It is only counterproductive if you
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On the wrong side, I'm solid.
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I'm sure of my past
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No one handled it well either.
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It's because once that feeling
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They are also wondering
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Even if it is physical
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Stay close why ever
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This question has intensified in
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head not yet sexy one desires me
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and then rattling resort head and man
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I wonder if you're doing something wrong
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power
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And then the thing is back
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Instead of talking about it silently
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more or I've always been silent
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And that feeling gets bigger
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Bigger and in the end, this
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Feelings because you are more careful
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Or I became more careful.
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More broken than that.
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I should have repaired it for myself.
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I concluded that I would
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You have to force to talk
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It's just not easy and I think
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This is also the only correct
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approach is
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I'm sure many because always
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again when I talk to warriors
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Or people talking to me.
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There was such a topic that it
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Many of his feelings from time to time
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know
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I'm not talking about sex now.
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There are no physical things
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a possible reason for hard cheese with
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The other day so much stress on the
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Work can't do that
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It's good health and so on.
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And so on and so forth, so there's
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There are many reasons why it isn't necessarily something
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have to do with the partnership
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Of course, it can also be that you
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It's a partnership and that's
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feelings and this loneliness thing real
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But how am I doing almost nothing
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know then also submit
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Don't give up impulses to stop this
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Feeling that it is not
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Just like I said, my strategy.
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It doesn't work and I think
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This is also a strategy that many
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Men do it, or many women do it.
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There is also the fear of rejection.
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So judge in yours is so far open
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And then the one who doesn't go into it
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Or annoyed, of course.
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why board in front of'm kopp and help in
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The end effect isn't really any further.
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Those were my thoughts on it.
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If you want, you can still
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Read a small blog post
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It's written a bit of an occasion.
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like this the things in the video with a
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A few examples and I would
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Glad if you also have a few
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other of my projects would listen to the
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podcast and find everything on my
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homepage here of course also below
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Linked I would say thank you.
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to see or hear
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Say goodbye to Mr. Sasha.
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