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Limiting, the borderline podcast.
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Controversial topics, heatedly discussed and beautifully packaged.
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Discuss heatedly with my guests in an exciting format.
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Definitely, the podcast.
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Hello and welcome to a new issue of "Grenzswert",
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Sometimes there are borderline issues.
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Today I have another interesting guest with me, that's dear Kalingo.
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Hello there.
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Hello there.
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I hope I've said it right now.
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Yeah, that's fine.
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Okay.
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I found you on Twitter and then met you because you always had such interesting posts.
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And then I thought to myself, we're talking about social media, blogging, podcasting today, because that's what you do.
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Yeah, I'd love to.
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That's fine.
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How do you like Twitter? Or is it x-zero?
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My social media app has always been Twitter.
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I liked the fact that you get an insight into the lives of others so quickly and don't have to read much, but only have a few lines at a time.
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I found it very pleasant, but somehow it has changed in the meantime.
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It's very toxic, isn't it?
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Yes, yes.
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And there are just unbelievably many fake accounts in the meantime, where you always think, can this really be now?
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I don't think that's what they're posting anymore.
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It wasn't like that before.
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So I have a lot of bots accounts that want to sell me some erotic content.
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Yeah, I have them, too.
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That's fine. I thought it was because I was male.
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That's fine.
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I always find it funny when half-clothed women like all my posts, all the nonsense I post, there.
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Yes, then you always notice the same.
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So if I'm posting something in that direction, then I could still think, okay, maybe they've really read that, but I'm also posting things that are completely different.
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And then I think, oh come on, you can save that, you dear Bot.
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Especially how fast they sometimes respond.
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Yes, yes.
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So I do so Nonsense Onlyfans and when I post a post on Onlyfans and it is automatically published on Twitter, instant, so the post is not a second out,
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I already have 20, 30 likes and several shares on it. No one can be that fast.
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No, I also think with Onlyfans, so as soon as this term appears somewhere or only the abbreviation OF, there are already some automatisms that do this.
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I also noticed that you have appeared very often lately, you have such a normal post, then the discussion comes under and then a reply is hidden, so my news in my descriptions or descriptions or something else.
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And I think that's so unnecessary.
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Yeah, I think so, too. But sometimes I think I actually use Twitter the same way. So I don't comment somewhere with my nude pictures now, but I also post some sometimes and then I think, well, is that so much better than what the bots do now? I don't know either.
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Yes, sometimes you post nude pictures of yourself. You never see your face. It's just a body.
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Exactly, my body. That's important, I'm not fake.
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You had a trip lately, you were only in the USA and then you were somewhere where it was nice.
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Yes, yes.
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And you posted a lot of that too.
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Yes, we were in the Caribbean. That was our big annual vacation.
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He also left for a few days.
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Yes, we were on the road for just under four weeks and we spent a very long time thinking about where we were going and then finally thought, okay, definitely somewhere where it's warm. And then we said, okay, we're going to New York and from there we're going to see where the wings are going.
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And finally we decided to go to Nassau and then we looked at a few smaller islands of the Bahamas. And I also posted a lot of pictures because the Bahamas are just very empty at the time.
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So we were on the road in February and we were always the only ones on the beaches.
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I was so jealous.
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Yeah, I think so.
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And you posted food.
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Always.
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Now I know which character you have based on your photos. And honestly, if I had only smelled some of it, I would have somehow had two or three kilos more on it.
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I asked myself, where does this good woman leave it?
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Yes, everyone always wonders. I don't do so much sport right now. Although, if I say I don't do so much sport, for many others it may still be a lot of sport.
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That's why I don't want to put it that way. So currently there are three or four times a week, but usually quite relaxed with a yoga session, a bike tour.
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I wanted to start running a little more. I think I've been a bit lucky genetically, too. My mother is also still slim and she is over 60 now.
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And you also have to say that I eat a lot of sweet stuff, but I think my portions are not the largest and then you can save a bit.
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So I have a chocolate in the fridge and alone, when I open the door, I gain weight.
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That's exactly the opposite. I'm sure if you went out to the meadow and grazed, you'd starve. I'd still gain weight.
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But of course, sports also pushes the metabolism a bit. That is, if you move as well as you can, then you actually keep the body running quite well.
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But I was definitely lucky too. So you have to say that.
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Good gener.
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This is not the case with the sport. I used to do a little bit, but after my impactful experience, it's not that difficult.
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I have a rollator and then you can imagine that, that's a bit difficult.
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Yes, I had a bike accident last year and then had a broken foot for a while. I did a lot of chair yoga.
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Of course, you don't burn a lot of calories, but you stay at least a little bit in motion.
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I was lucky that they sent me to a rehabilitation centre where there were a lot of old people. And then I did sit dancing.
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It was also an interesting experience.
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Yeah, I think so. I also like to try new things in sports. A friend of mine had a hip surgery during her studies.
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Of course, she was not allowed to run and not cycle afterwards. She said I could do water aerobics.
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Would you like to come with me? I said, sure, I'll take a look. I have no idea.
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It was so incredibly exhausting. There were only women there, but so many women who apparently do it once a week.
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They just hung us out. They were so good. We almost died there.
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A good friend of mine made water sumba. She also says that the first time is really exhausting.
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Yeah, I think so.
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If you're in non-swimmers with your little nephew and you're walking through the water and dragging him after you,
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Then you will also notice how exhausting and what kind of resistance the water forms.
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So brood depreciation and all that. I was always on wheels after that.
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I'm not the mega-swimmer either. Now that we were in the Caribbean, I immediately noticed it again.
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I have been to the Caribbean before and I thought the sea is quite strong and I prefer to stay in the front in the flat area.
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That was exactly the same impression again. Some days I didn't really dare to leave.
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I'd rather be on the safe side.
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I can understand, because we used to have a bigger caravan, a mobile home on the North Sea and I spent half my childhood there.
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The current can be really bad and the sea can have beautiful power.
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That's why I can imagine it.
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I'm a little disaster junkie. I like documentaries and podcasts about people who get into weird situations,
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Whether it is self-inflicted or not.
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Then I listen to how they were rescued and think to myself, I just stay on my couch with my cat on my lap and pull the blanket on me and listen to that.
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But here I am safe.
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I'm really good at that. I also just listen to the state of the nation or logbook network policy.
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This is a different kind of disaster.
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Yes, definitely.
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I now have such a picture of an older woman, already slightly gray hair, with her cat and the blanket on such a rocking chair.
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I am a very visual person.
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I've always said to myself that I was born a grandma.
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I remember when I was 12, 13.
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I always go directly to the library on weekends or Fridays after school, borrowed a few books and did not leave my bed for the weekend.
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I read the books and brought them back on Monday.
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At some point my mother said to me, are you finally going to celebrate or party?
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What does a normal teenager do?
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So, no, I'm just reading my book. That's okay, too.
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Funny, that's how I was.
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Only I went through the non-fiction department.
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By the time I was 14, I had read it completely for the first time.
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I had to carry my mother with me from time to time so that I could borrow the books, which were then too precious.
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Yeah, I think so.
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Technical books can be incredibly expensive.
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Oh, yeah, incredibly expensive.
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My partner is always a bit shocked when I buy a new book.
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This is in the range of 200 to 300 euros.
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And he always thinks, oh my God, so much money for a book.
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You'll get 10 Harry Potter for that.
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Definitely.
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Harry Potter was my first book I read in English.
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Then I thought, now I'm doing this, now I'm learning the language.
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And I thought about looking up every word until I decided on one side,
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No, you can't get very far if you do.
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I think I was 14, 15 or something.
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And then I just started reading the book like that.
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And you can tap into quite a lot if you have such a standard vocabulary.
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I lived in England at the age of 15 for half a year, as an exchange student.
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And if you get along with the English skills you've got back there,
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You just understand that you really don't know anything about the language, not at all.
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And I learned English there and my English teachers didn't like that anymore.
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They're too good.
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I also lived in the United States for a year, even when I was in high school.
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I remember when I came back, I had a mega accent.
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And my teacher didn't understand me because he spoke British English and I did Southern Slang.
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He always said, okay, speak slowly or write things down.
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And I thought, my goodness, so somehow he should understand.
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But you actually lose an accent like that quickly.
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I just found this so funny because I also spoke this usage English.
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And that's just like in Germany or in other German language regulators.
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These are regional differences.
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And although I knew him in the county, but totally in the south,
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He has English on him.
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The Oxford English teachers think that's really bad.
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For example, "butter", no one says that he "baa".
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So, I can understand that.
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Well, you have made this beautiful journey.
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And recently you made the blog post, where you put all the culinary details on your …
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What is a lifestyle blog?
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That's ….
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My blog and I are a long story.
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Back when I was studying, I cross-funded my studies a bit with a website.
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Blogs have only just come up.
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And I had quite a lot of cooperation and took a bit of money.
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And that was all great for me.
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And it was a running blog mainly or running fitness, so in the direction.
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And then I didn't feel like it anymore and then I closed it at some point.
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And now, last year, we were in a yoga retreat.
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And that was so terrible that I said, no, so somehow, you have to make that public.
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And that was the first entry on this blog.
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And since then, it's been a bit broken again.
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And now I thought, no, I'm actually enjoying it and I'd like to write more.
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And I think there are more people who travel the way we do.
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So with a little less luggage, completely relaxed.
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And even now, we don't have the megaplan when we go somewhere.
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We already know roughly what we want to see, but we haven't clocked through every day or something.
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And of course we are mega foodies.
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This means that we are already trying to sort out the food hotspots everywhere, if possible.
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Then I thought, if I could only persuade a person who might be flying to New York now,
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If you look at one of the shops where we ate cookies and cakes, then it was worth it.
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That's where we got some really tasty stuff.
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Yes, I had seen the proof photos of yours, you had just arrived in New York
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Somehow I stole snacks somewhere.
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Yes, yes.
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That looked pretty hot.
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Yeah, that was all pretty good there, too.
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So I can still remember that once we lived right in Tiny Square in New York
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and at 12 o'clock at night they always make such an art installation,
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That on all the screens that are there, almost the same motifs run and you can then look at it.
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I am not an art person at all.
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My friend, however, he really wanted to see this and then we're just down there in the middle of the night
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And then suddenly I was so hungry, where I actually don't really eat at night.
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I sleep super early otherwise.
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And then there was a Hardee's, a Hardee's is such a southern city chain and there are biscuits.
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This is such a buttermilk roll, really very buttery, very high in calories.
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And there I had in the middle of the night, oh no, it wasn't Hardee's, Popeyes it was.
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There I had in the middle of the night buck on such a biscuit and then we bought this biscuit
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and taken to our hotel room at half past one and I thought, boah, is this the American Way of Life?
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I don't know either.
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So it was very good that we flew home after the time in New York
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And don't do that here, but eat a salad and a cucumber here as well.
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We're also talking about a country where you can buy fried butter.
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Yes, when I lived there at the time, I can still remember that my host family there,
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She always had a pot of oil on the stove if you want to fry something spontaneously.
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I thought that was unbelievable, but I also fryed a thing spontaneously.
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There's this quote from Huma, can you fried a shirt? You can fry anything.
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Yeah, yeah, I'm afraid.
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In England, for example, you can also buy fried Snickers and Mars and such.
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Yeah, that's what my friend told me. I met him two years ago, just before Christmas.
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And he told me I was at the Christmas market eating a fried Mars with my niece.
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And since then, I've been thinking that he ate this without me and I'm actually still a bit pissed off.
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I don't remember at the time, there was no chance that he could have eaten that with me.
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But as women are sometimes so, we are also a bit resentful, even if the man can't help it.
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And now I'm waiting, maybe he'll listen to the podcast episode and fried me a Mars.
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I never tried it. The culinary delight had been with me, fish and chips with Vinegar.
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But that's not bad either.
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You just need to know how much Vinegar you put on it. Too much is not good and too little is not good. The right amount.
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That's probably true.
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But until two years ago I had an aunt who lived in England and she was able to tell me all the tricks.
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Yeah, very good.
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I recently read your blog post about the delicious food. Is there more to follow on your blog?
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Right, so there are a few things planned for New York now.
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I don't want to anticipate too much now.
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You got something in the pipeline.
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Exactly, it's all about picking up the New York tourist who just wants to get a little bit involved with the city.
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Unfortunately, I work full-time on the side. That sounds a bit silly now, but that's how it is, of course.
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And then you always have to look at what you can do in time.
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I always want to dance at so many weddings and then some things just lie down, because I just had this new idea with the podcast again.
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So actually already a year ago, but now I have implemented the first episode and recorded it a few days ago.
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This will also be posted on the blog.
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With your friend, huh?
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That's right, we've now created a podcast called "The Strong Gender."
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It's about portraying women who have been outstanding in some way, be it positive or negative.
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So women who were great in science or artists, athletes or even in a negative way, who became famous because of some terrible act.
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There are some insane criminal cases where women have done things that are, unfortunately, quite harrowing.
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And I find the extremes very exciting and I like to deal with characters and try to understand why people have become the way they are.
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And in general, especially in science, it is also the case that men are often more present.
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Women are often mentioned for the pre-emptive, not at all.
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That's always a bit sad.
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So let's try to do a bit of a shift and also highlight the women.
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I found your name development ideas.
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You posted it on Twitter or X.
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By my suggestion you meant yes, ah I see you can also use Chat-GBT.
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I didn't really like what I thought.
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And then I thought about what I could take.
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And then I thought, oh the Twitter followers, they're always a lot more creative than me because I'm really not creative at all in that regard.
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And then came the strong gender as a suggestion.
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And I thought that was pretty good.
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What does that mean?
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That's a good name.
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There's this one quote, I don't know who said that, but behind every strong man stands an even stronger woman.
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And I can only confirm that.
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That's right.
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It's like that. Without ifs and buts.
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Yeah, good to hear.
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Yes, my parents were very open and cosmopolitan.
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And somehow they gave me good values.
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Yes, my mother was a single parent with us many children.
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And I didn't even understand what that meant at the time.
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And if I compare my situation with her situation now, I'm at the age when she already had an 18-year-old son and even more children.
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And was just hired and did everything so great with us.
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And I don't know, I'm here now and I have a two-room apartment and I share it with two cats.
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I don't have to worry more in life.
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And it is very, very different how this has developed.
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My grandmother, on her mother's side, learned to cook and eventually got married.
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She was so good at school that she could have gone to high school.
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But because women marry at that time anyway, one has rather sent the brother, who with the worse grades to university, i.e. to high school.
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And the woman then met her husband at some point and he died of the cancer at 34 on the abdominal saliva.
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And left my grandma with four daughters behind.
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And the woman rocked it.
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So impressive performance, what this woman brought back then. Hats off.
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That's a bit of the idea I'm following with my podcast.
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I would like to interview my grandmother and my mother.
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Because I think the two know a lot of things that they, or they have experienced a lot that I don't know about.
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And you rarely sit down and just ask.
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My grandma is over 80 and they still drove through Europe with the motorhome until last year and looked at everything.
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And they have stories to tell, they are insanely exciting.
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They were then, working in different countries.
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My parents were in boarding school, so my mother was in boarding school and my grandparents were always traveling internationally.
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And, of course, that was a completely different number.
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Back in the GDR, you almost had to be chosen to work abroad.
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And yes, I think there's still a lot in my grandparents, which I don't even know.
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And I'd like to hold on to it somehow so that it doesn't get lost.
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I picked up these stories from my grandparents and also from my grandma.
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It's always been so fantastic.
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And it is a pity that there is now no one left who can carry this on, because in the end there are questions.
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Because I had the days that I made a recording in the music podcasts.
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And that's how I came up with it, I don't even know what music my grandpa listened to.
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I don't know.
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It's sad somehow. So it's not a reproach, but I don't know about my grandpa either.
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I mean, my grandpa died when I was 14 and I had very different interests than talking about what music the old people listen to.
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My grandpa, I'm sure I'm going to sit in the nestle now, I think it was working in Iran, could be Iraq, but I think it was Iran.
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And that's where he meant, yes back then, we just had a monkey as a pet and I'm just mega animal-loving.
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And my first thought is, oh wow, a monkey, how cool.
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And the second thought is, did you also vaccinate against rabies?
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What happened to Ebola? Didn't you somehow protect yourself or something?
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Why did you have a monkey?
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So it was totally different times.
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Yes, but still, so interesting, what thoughts you had against Ebola, right?
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Definitely.
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You have a second blog, which is so much more about yours, how do I call it now, such a personal page, where you describe a career.
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I read a few articles that I found very interesting, because this is absolutely from a different point of view, as I experience it.
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I'm the more dominant part and you're the submissive, the subversive part.
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And what about me, do you get any feedback on that?
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So I put out the comment function on the blog intentionally, because for me these are memories that I want to keep, so positive for me.
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Sometimes I get texted by subs on Twitter, who then comment on something.
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But this is then rather general, that they say that they liked it very much or helped, because they just consider themselves whether they want to take the step or not.
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I would never have started to write this down if my partner at the time had not asked me to do so.
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Because he said that because I don't have any experience in the field yet, he would like to get to know my thoughts.
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And that's why, after every session we had, he really wanted to read how I was doing with it.
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I looked at it again a year later and found, actually, it's too bad not to share it, because the things have become really good.
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I know how, when I was still thinking, I dare, I don't dare, how I scoured the Internet, after such reports, to read how others were doing.
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You can find so little. And then I thought, well, I can put it online and watch it.
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There are also some reports that I take offline from time to time. Sometimes I feel like I don't want to share that right now.
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It's really stupid once it's there.
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Yes, especially archiv.org and so on.
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Exactly, but then of course you have to invest a little more time to find these things.
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But for the general reader, it is no longer online.
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But now everything is online again.
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But now and then it is the case that one, or was it for me, that I then again doubted my sexuality and thought,
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I don't know if I have to have this now.
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I mean, apart from the fact that the things are very well described and also reflect your emotional state very well,
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It is detailed, but not detailed.
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You know what I mean? Situations are described, but it is not now pornographic or anything like that,
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It's just in a stylish way and more on the emotional level.
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And I found this so exciting when reading that in places I really couldn't stop,
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I started reading because I wanted to know what was going on.
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I'm really happy about that.
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So it's really good. I blog too.
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I'm not good at blogging now, but that was really good to read and that was exciting.
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Yes, thank you.
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You have a good storytelling style.
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That's super sweet.
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So that sounds totally stupid now, but when I did my Abitur at the time,
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I was always such a 1er-2er student and just not and that was German.
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I always wrote a 5 in the German exams and I thought it couldn't be.
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Why can't I do that?
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And I just had a very bad opinion of myself,
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I've always read a lot and at some point I thought,
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Actually, I would write too.
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And then I read it through and thought, actually, I don't think it's that bad.
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Why was everything I did so bad at the time?
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But I think my teachers were just stupid.
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I mean, I said before in such a preliminary conversation that I am a dyslexic.
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With me there were dictations, then the red line started at the top and stopped with the dot below.
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This is mega depressing.
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But the bad is yes, then you know yes, or the good, then you know what it is,
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But for me, the content was just bad.
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Yeah, but that's so depressing because no matter what you do, it's always wrong.
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Yes, that's true.
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And you just lose interest in it.
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And I always had this paid module here at DUN before,
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this mentor, to stop gross typographical errors, what is it grammar,
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but also mainly to correct spelling errors.
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Then came the Great Enlightenment.
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Schette, GPT.
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I put my text in there and say, correct in me.
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And then I get my text corrected again.
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And he even tells me what he has corrected,
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I can keep the stylistic stuff that I have.
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And that's such a relief.
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Yeah, I think so.
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Yes, I also write short stories and I think it's still,
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I don't know, one or two are on it right now.
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And there's an author named Tanja Ruß, a BDSM novel author.
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And then she wrote to me and she said,
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She read the story and she liked it so much.
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And if I ever write more, I should get in touch with her publisher.
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And I always have to think about it because I think, wow, that's so cool,
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that someone who has really already misplaced something,
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Then say, like, I like your lyrics and keep going.
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And I'd like to have a lot more time to write,
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But it is so incredibly time-consuming.
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Yes, and then there is this stupid thing that you have to go to work,
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to finance it all.
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That's right.
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And then sometimes I think, maybe I could somehow
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Fully funded with such online stuff.
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But then I think, well, actually it's nice,
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To be properly ill and insured and to have a pension insurance.
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And such a permanent employment already has its advantages.
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Yes, definitely. And never, never, never.
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I know this from other content creators.
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into private health insurance.
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It can be really badly expensive.
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That's right, that's not really a path I'd take.
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So you've already thought about financing everything online.
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Pooh, that's hard work.
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Yes, because I already had a lot of money during my studies.
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I also deserved it, I've already had it on the screen.
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Especially with my professional background, I think,
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There are some possibilities.
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And I don't know how it would be worth it.
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because my target group would be mainly …
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You're extremely niche when it comes to that. So the one side.
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And the other side is also extremely niche again.
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Exactly. However, a niche is very good.
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Because then you really have a defined target group.
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But my target group is students without money.
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And I don't know if that's so smart, because there's so much time to invest.
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And the other target group is Kingstar,
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They certainly invest money and take money in their hands for good content.
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At least my experience.
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But the jump from "I can live out in King and this is my free time"
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I have to do something professional, I don't know if I'm willing to give it.
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That's a giant step.
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That's right.
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And some do. There are some who live it out openly.
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The Lena, for example, from Penumbra, who, I don't know if you know that,
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the company that makes collars.
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And she is also openly outed as a devotee.
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But you can't take the step back.
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And I think that would be difficult for me.
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As an author, I can definitely imagine that.
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But probably not more.
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They're not all Crystal Grey, are they?
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Yeah, that's right.
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You also have Onlyfans and do it a bit by the way.
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Exactly. Onlyfans got more out of it because I thought I'd take a look at it.
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Because I have the blog and also this little kinky podcast,
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Where nothing has come for a long time, I also have hosting costs.
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I think that's a good thing if I can cover them.
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So I don't really need more.
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And I also have to say that I struggled with my body image for a very long time.
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I'm not saying explicitly with my body now because my body image and my body are two very different things.
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And the gang to Twitter and also to Onlyfans made it clear to me pretty quickly,
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How desirable I am, only from the outside.
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And all those who know me, they reflect that to me,
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It's not just the outside, it's the rest of me.
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And that gave me an incredible amount of self-confidence.
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I used to be very reserved.
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And I'll always be an introvert, that's not what it's about.
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But I can now also stand my wife and assert myself.
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And just to get this encouragement and also the feeling that I'm creating something,
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What people like, I liked very much.
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And that's why I did this for a while at Onlyfans.
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It was only two or three months and now I'm asleep again.
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You also have to have content for it.
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Exactly. And I'm always someone who wants to do it all with plan and I want to do it well.
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Yeah, but then you need someone to take pictures and someone to be with the location.
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And then you just need someone who, if you can't do it yourself, will still pimp you up and blah blah blah.
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Exactly, and that's all too heavy and I somehow don't feel like it.
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And I always don't know, you get it very well in photos, of course, to show only a part of life.
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Because you're already saying you need someone to pimp you up.
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Exactly, I'm not like that at all.
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So I'm actually always only in jeans and T-shirts or in sports clothes.
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I would never be caught in heels unless I went to a kinky party.
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And if I, that sounds stupid now, but if I, don't know, comb my hair three times a week, then there is already a lot.
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Mostly I cuddle them together somehow and then I have a ponytail and everything is good.
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And yes, I don't know how much I want this picture of what people have online to be so different from me.
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So I think it's nice to have this vibe from the woman next door.
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I mean, I didn't invest any money to watch the content at all the fans.
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I only know what you're posting on Twitter.
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This is just a woman on the beach, a woman in the bathtub or just a little twisted in bed.
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You know what I mean, don't you?
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You summarized very well.
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That's the girl next door or the young woman next door.
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I know others who then just refer to themselves as thunder or something.
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I mean, I'm sometimes in the same bubble as you.
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0:40:54 – 0:41:06
And yes, that's so 1990s, 2000s pornographic vibe, I always find.
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Yes, funny enough, I was out with my colleague on Monday and it was so funny because we were walking around town and I just meant to her,
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Look at the woman in front of us. And it was a beautiful woman, Ellenlong legs, tight jeans, black high heels, it all looked perfect.
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She had a short leather jacket on and a sweater underneath and on her hand the red leash, which of course matched something else in her outfit.
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It all looked so coherent. There was the dog on this leash, which of course also fit perfectly to the shoes.
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And I just thought, if she looks like this, if she goes for a walk with her dog, what does she look like when she picks herself up?
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So it was so, I don't know, I think it's great that she sees herself like that.
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She has so much time.
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Yeah, I don't know. I mean, if she's comfortable with it, that's great anyway.
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Yeah, sure.
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But I couldn't. I don't care enough about that.
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0:42:10 – 0:42:20
So my girlfriend is now also the girl next door and puts her hair together rather than, who knows what an elaborate hairstyle and make-up.
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0:42:20 – 0:42:28
I think I've seen the makeup three times now in that period and that was just for TikTok videos or livestreams.
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Otherwise not at all.
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Yeah, now I've lost the thread.
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When I think about it in such a way that you always have to get ready.
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That's so much time.
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0:42:49 – 0:42:55
I have experienced this with an ex-girlfriend of mine, who has not even brought out the garbage without make-up.
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When I had an appointment, I was showered for 15 minutes and done.
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And yes, hello, three hours, don't you think that's enough?
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0:43:07 – 0:43:13
Yes, of course, the before-and-after result for this was blatant. Wow.
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But that's so much you have to do.
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I totally admire that too.
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It's really an art to make up well.
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I see women just getting ready for the internet.
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0:43:29 – 0:43:39
Then you have other people, like Raven or something, who sit in front of it completely unvarnished and are also an attractive woman.
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0:43:39 – 0:43:46
What's all this for? Just because I have some vanities or insecurities and that's all with it,
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I don't want to say this in a derogatory way, but I'm going to flatten it out.
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I understand your train of thought.
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0:43:56 – 0:44:00
You can get along really well.
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0:44:00 – 0:44:06
There's this, what's her name, Carina Pusch, who has recently been well noticed with a few videos.
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0:44:06 – 0:44:10
He's also such a makeup artist.
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0:44:10 – 0:44:17
Women's activist, was now also in the EU Parliament, once in Strasbourg and once in Brussels.
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Maybe there's someone for my podcast.
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0:44:19 – 0:44:25
Yeah, really great woman. Carina Pusch on Twitter.
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0:44:25 – 0:44:30
Fantastic woman, also had a few scandals to do now.
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0:44:30 – 0:44:32
She had had a scandal herself.
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0:44:32 – 0:44:41
She has been sexually harassed by a YouTuber and has also fought back and then stopped,
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as sad as it is, but had a rather nasty shitstorm for a long time,
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0:44:46 – 0:44:53
Because he just incited his people and you know what that's like, Victim Blaming is and stop the perpetrator-victim reversal.
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0:44:53 – 0:44:56
Yeah, she wouldn't have done that.
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0:44:56 – 0:45:03
And then she made a very good video about it after she won the process.
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0:45:03 – 0:45:07
Again and again makes very interesting topics.
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0:45:07 – 0:45:12
Stand up for victims, too. Really a strong woman.
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0:45:12 – 0:45:17
At least Chris is happy. I didn't get them.
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Yes, a strong woman.
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0:45:21 – 0:45:25
I'll put that name on the list.
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0:45:25 – 0:45:29
But now we are exactly at the point where I wanted to go.
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0:45:29 – 0:45:36
That hatred. Chris, you stupid, stupid comments on your content.
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0:45:36 – 0:45:41
Very, very rare. So really very rare.
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0:45:41 – 0:45:45
I usually blog immediately.
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0:45:45 – 0:45:48
Yeah, or you'll get something from me.
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0:45:48 – 0:45:51
My Twitter followers are so friendly.
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0:45:51 – 0:45:56
So most of the time they read that already and comment on something like inappropriate,
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0:45:56 – 0:46:00
before I even get it.
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0:46:00 – 0:46:04
And that's why I sometimes think, well, maybe I can come out.
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0:46:04 – 0:46:07
They're all so friendly on Twitter.
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0:46:07 – 0:46:12
And then I hear something about a shitstorm again and then I think, well, maybe not.
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0:46:12 – 0:46:16
Yeah, it's better.
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0:46:16 – 0:46:21
So who gets naked on the Internet and then even so naked.
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0:46:21 – 0:46:28
Boah, you make yourself so vulnerable that this unicorn candava.
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0:46:28 – 0:46:34
As for names, very early. So I have name memory like a sieve.
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0:46:34 – 0:46:36
Yeah, that's right.
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0:46:36 – 0:46:43
She has also sometimes reported on why she doesn't say in which region she lives.
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0:46:43 – 0:46:47
And what a terrible experience she has had.
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0:46:47 – 0:46:52
And I always think so, that's so unnecessary. Why do people hate others?
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0:46:52 – 0:46:56
My girlfriend and I, we did livestreams on TikTok.
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0:46:56 – 0:47:00
We cooked the food and then we ate it together and she almost streamed the food
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0:47:00 – 0:47:04
And then we paused.
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0:47:04 – 0:47:12
So nothing really demanding, but we had a loyal audience,
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0:47:12 – 0:47:16
who were also happy and that was the case with them, we ate relatively late in the evening,
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0:47:16 – 0:47:23
because we also slept for a long time and so the day-night rhythm was shifted a bit backwards.
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0:47:23 – 0:47:27
And you can get roses at TikTok.
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0:47:27 – 0:47:31
Such a rose is worth 0.5 cents.
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0:47:31 – 0:47:36
And when you got ten roses, you got five cents.
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0:47:36 – 0:47:42
So we're talking about, you know, what amounts, so three months maybe with ten euros.
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0:47:42 – 0:47:47
And even then, we've been told that we're just money horny.
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0:47:47 – 0:47:55
The insults, which were then just to my girlfriend, they went then always immediately into the sexual splint.
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0:47:55 – 0:48:03
Yes, and with me, well, then hangs a bit of the face so a bit.
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0:48:03 – 0:48:09
Or wait, I still have my word-finding disorder here.
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0:48:09 – 0:48:15
Yes, then you just took these points of attack and then tried to do something.
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0:48:15 – 0:48:17
Yeah, that's right.
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0:48:17 – 0:48:21
But I found this relatively harmless compared to what was with her.
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0:48:21 – 0:48:29
What immediately always went to sexualization and then stop these unnecessary insults.
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0:48:29 – 0:48:38
And I already noticed that you sometimes have comments under it and above all totally ripped the context.
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0:48:38 – 0:48:44
You posted something there and there wasn't even a picture and that one insults your liver spots.
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0:48:44 – 0:48:50
Oh, yeah, my liver spots that lead to discussions.
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0:48:50 – 0:48:56
So often something like that comes along, yes, let the doctor check it.
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0:48:56 – 0:49:05
And then I think to myself, I've never had complexes because of my liver spots or anything like that.
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0:49:05 – 0:49:11
I don't know, that's the least of my problems.
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0:49:11 – 0:49:19
And then people say that and then you look at yourself in the mirror and you think, isn't that okay now?
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0:49:19 – 0:49:23
But you have to continue the train of thought.
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0:49:23 – 0:49:27
People go where they can go.
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0:49:27 – 0:49:33
If the biggest problem is your liver spots, then everything else is fine.
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0:49:33 – 0:49:35
Look at that.
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0:49:35 – 0:49:43
Very likely, yes. That's true. Yes, the funny spots were once a comment.
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0:49:43 – 0:49:59
I forgot that again, because my friend has a very good hand for making me feel really good.
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0:49:59 – 0:50:06
So he recognizes all my self-critical points and somehow turns them into something great.
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0:50:06 – 0:50:08
He's cute, isn't he?
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0:50:08 – 0:50:10
He's mega cute.
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0:50:10 – 0:50:17
We were invited to a Kinky Vernissage before March.
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0:50:17 – 0:50:21
I got sick so we couldn't go.
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0:50:21 – 0:50:26
Was that where you asked for ideas, a costume or something?
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0:50:26 – 0:50:29
Exactly, yes.
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0:50:29 – 0:50:35
All the participants got a jumpsuit that could be cut together.
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0:50:35 – 0:50:39
It was just such a cheap white fabric overall.
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0:50:39 – 0:50:45
One could then emphasize certain parts of the body or not.
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0:50:45 – 0:50:48
It was about presenting works of art.
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0:50:48 – 0:50:54
My friend said, well, it's quite clear, I'm just the starry sky, because I have so many liver spots.
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It looks like starry images.
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0:50:56 – 0:51:05
And then I just thought, God, how cute this man is.
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0:51:05 – 0:51:07
I could still remember it.
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0:51:07 – 0:51:15
I had written you an idea and then you said yes, it goes in that direction.
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0:51:15 – 0:51:19
How cute is this comment?
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0:51:19 – 0:51:23
Then you found a real piece of gold again.
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0:51:23 – 0:51:27
Yes, that's true. via Twitter, by the way.
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0:51:27 – 0:51:30
You won't believe it.
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0:51:30 – 0:51:33
I met my girlfriend on Facebook.
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0:51:33 – 0:51:36
I also met my ex-boyfriend on Twitter.
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0:51:36 – 0:51:40
I don't know what's going on. This is probably my dating visa.
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0:51:40 – 0:51:43
This is your natural habitat on the Internet.
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Obviously, yes.
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0:51:46 – 0:51:52
With me it was like that, I was in such a group and they talked to me a bit about making music.
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0:51:52 – 0:51:57
I posted a photo of my current desk.
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You saw a microphone and a little keyboard and stuff.
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0:52:02 – 0:52:10
And then she texted me because it was actually such a dating group.
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And then she asked if I was singing too.
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And I said, no, I do podcasts and stuff.
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0:52:16 – 0:52:21
Then we came into the letter and ended up in the Messenger of Facebook.
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Then in WhatsApp and then it went on.
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That's how I met my current girlfriend.
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0:52:32 – 0:52:41
Social media is almost life-changing in this regard.
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0:52:41 – 0:52:45
If you find a partner, yes.
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0:52:45 – 0:52:53
I spent five years with my ex-boyfriend and a year and a half with my current boyfriend.
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Without Twitter, I would never have met them.
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I like both of them very much.
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0:52:59 – 0:53:02
I also like my ex-boyfriend very much.
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0:53:02 – 0:53:05
I try to keep a good relationship with my ex-boyfriends.
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0:53:05 – 0:53:09
Yes, I try, but that's not the case with all ex-girlfriends.
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0:53:09 – 0:53:13
No, it can't be done with everyone. That's true. But they were doing very well.
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My best friends are my first relationship and my second.
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0:53:19 – 0:53:24
I think that's more than most people can say.
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0:53:24 – 0:53:32
I write this out very often, so that other women have already become a bit jealous.
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0:53:32 – 0:53:39
Because you know each other so well, you write about everything.
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Even over the partner's cheese feet, which bother you.
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0:53:47 – 0:53:54
Yes, I was on vacation with my ex-boyfriend even after the break-up.
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We were already a year apart, but he wanted to travel to Australia.
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I was very dissatisfied with my work at the time.
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Then I just quit and flew with him.
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It was a wonderful holiday. It's a huge advantage if you know each other so well.
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0:54:17 – 0:54:25
I still have an ex-girlfriend, so with the second, for almost three years
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We cooked twice a week.
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Or even baking, Christmas, cakes baked before birthdays and so on.
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Mutually helped to renovate the apartment and such things.
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I mean, these people were just so important to one.
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And if that has gone well, then you can continue to build on it.
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If the partner has no problems.
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I feel the same way about my playing partner.
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0:54:59 – 0:55:06
I almost, I think, I don't know, 2021 or 2020 even,
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I was looking for my first playmate.
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I really had it until I found my friend.
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0:55:13 – 0:55:17
Of course, it is no longer the case that we have daily contact,
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But he is already a very important person for me and that will always remain.
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We also share news from time to time and ask how we are doing.
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I hope that will never change.
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0:55:34 – 0:55:42
Just for listeners who don't know what a playmate is. Would you like to explain this briefly?
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0:55:42 – 0:55:47
Yes, so playing partner is a term from the BDSM.
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He was someone I could live out my sexuality with.
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It was not a romantic relationship in itself.
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It should never happen either.
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From the beginning, it was almost an agreement that only BDSM is lived out and nothing more.
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0:56:06 – 0:56:16
I can tell you from experience that romantic love relationships and BDSM are very difficult to reconcile.
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0:56:16 – 0:56:21
It's really difficult.
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Especially as a dominant part.
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I've also had experience on the dominant side.
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0:56:30 – 0:56:35
This isn't quite my thing, but it was nice to try.
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0:56:35 – 0:56:40
But I have the feeling that if love is involved, then you are very inhibited.
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0:56:40 – 0:56:47
Sometimes the sub may want more, but the dominant part just can't give that at the moment.
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0:56:47 – 0:56:53
You can't hurt the partner you love.
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Yes, yes.
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0:56:55 – 0:57:02
It's not like cats make love.
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Which, by the way, is a very interesting thing, everyone should have seen once, no matter what cats.
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And heard.
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No matter which cat, whether it's a big cat or one of such housemates.
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It's wild, it's loud, and it's extremely brutal.
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That's true.
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Coatballs can fly there.
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Oh, yes, definitely.
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Yes, yes.
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Have we left out another area?
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I don't know.
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I wanted to create such an agenda.
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Now you have people to interview or have a conversation with and then you have to tickle everything out of their noses.
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I want people like you who are open and communicative and totally deviate from the topic.
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Excuse me?
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I also have a format, which means "the digression" and there I deviate from the topic myself.
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I wanted to talk about your social media career and your experiences.
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Yes, so my experiences are very, I would say, wavy.
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I have phases where I really use a lot of social media and then I like to reduce that because sometimes I think it's not good for me.
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Instagram can be so evil and toxic.
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Yeah, that's right, and that's just that.
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If you actively use it, you may not even notice it, but I almost only use it passively.
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Then I always look at things and then you hang in those spirals.
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My timeline is made up of some injured people.
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My story is such and such that it happens to me.
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And then from any x-rays you can diagnose.
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Cats are always there and then some fitness people.
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And depending on how the mood is in the day, you look at it and think,
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Anyway, I don't like any of that much today.
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Cats always go, but you scroll and scroll and somehow it's just so pointless wasted time.
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And then I think I could have listened to some podcast or made one myself.
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It's like TikTok, it's like wiping, wiping, wiping, and an hour is over.
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That's why I don't have TikTok, I never installed it.
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And it will stay that way.
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I often get asked if I have Snap and then I always think,
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So no, if I have Snap, that's well formulated.
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Is it usually just snap?
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And then there's the teacher in me who says, can you write in whole sentences?
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Yeah, but no, I don't have Snapchat either.
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I think I'm kind of too old for that.
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Never bothered me with that.
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And I also renounced Facebook at some point, because I realized,
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I spend too much time in these groups.
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So for communication and exchange this is mega good,
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But at some point, you're just wasting time.
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Yes, that's always the question, where is the focus?
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I only use Facebook because of certain people.
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Or I'll promote my stuff.
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It's just like Instagram.
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I've had Instagram since Instagram came out and I've seen all the change.
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and I thought at some point this took the wrong path,
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that there were still the influencers on it and then a nicer and more beautiful
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And in better places like others.
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And now my Instagram feed looks like this,
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I have a lot of cats that have fallen off.
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They have some genetic defects.
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Just like this one cat that looks like it's a reincarnation of Nostro,
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Mephesto, they're vampires with big eyes and they have long tendons.
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I don't know if you know this cat.
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Yeah, I know.
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Yes, and I have such things on me and I'm really happy,
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That I don't see the whole Bibis and Beauty Palace and so on in the world anymore.
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Because it's so bad for me, so it's all so fake.
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Yeah, that's right.
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Because I have already made money in this area,
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I don't feel like I want to look at it either.
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Because I know how fake that is.
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They're all just ten years younger than me.
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And I don't know, I don't have to look at a girl in her early twenties.
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He explains to me how to pack my bread box before I go to work.
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So it's kind of like that, yeah, I don't know.
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On TikTok there are a lot of mothers who pack their bread boxes for their children
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And then it'll all be so loving, and then it'll be cut out, and so on.
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And then there was a time, one that had such a child, that was kind of called Torben Philipp or something.
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She packed a bottle of vodka for the teacher and then stopped this waste
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and sometimes also moldy fruit with pure and then always has these bread cans.
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Torben Philipp, you forgot your break bread and throw it into the garden like that.
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That was the exact opposite, Anti said.
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And that was what was so beautiful.
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Yes, so I think social media can be damn toxic,
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1:03:07 – 1:03:14
But it also has such beautiful sides that you get to know interesting people or interesting projects.
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And you always have to take out your cost-benefit factor.
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1:03:18 – 1:03:25
Yes, for me is, so Twitter is really a pretty safe, kinky bubble, I have the feeling.
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1:03:25 – 1:03:29
And I've already met many of them privately and,
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So many are exaggerated, but a handful, let's say so.
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1:03:33 – 1:03:38
And yes, so don't know, or maybe two handful.
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From time to time we have had such a Twitter meeting in Berlin.
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There were different people there.
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And there were always people with whom nothing else would have brought me together.
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And I can appreciate that this has brought us Twitter.
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And even if it hasn't turned out anymore,
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But you just had a nice evening and exchanged a bit.
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And I'm not the mega extrovert now,
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So now that I'm kind of talking to strangers, that's just never going to happen.
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And on Twitter or on social media, this barrier simply disappears.
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1:04:16 – 1:04:20
It's much easier to just write to people and ask something.
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And usually a good conversation develops.
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And I appreciate that very much.
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That's what I appreciate.
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That I got to know people halfway through the internet or social media in general.
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1:04:36 – 1:04:42
Be that from the music area or stop from the kink area or stop so generally.
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1:04:42 – 1:04:48
They are interesting and have also given me added value.
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1:04:48 – 1:04:51
You have to imagine I'm so introverted,
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1:04:51 – 1:04:58
That I was the one who stood in the corner dressed in black with a drink in the discotheque.
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1:04:58 – 1:05:01
And they all came to me and asked me,
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1:05:01 – 1:05:05
Hey, tell me, do you have anything? You're full of it.
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1:05:05 – 1:05:09
Yeah, it's always been.
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1:05:09 – 1:05:13
We had lunch at work today.
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1:05:13 – 1:05:18
And our group is 15 to 20 people.
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1:05:18 – 1:05:22
And I didn't want to, I've been on the phone all morning.
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1:05:22 – 1:05:24
And it was just too exhausting.
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1:05:24 – 1:05:27
And a lot of people have spread their worries to me.
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1:05:27 – 1:05:29
That's beautiful.
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1:05:29 – 1:05:32
Exactly, I only need a quarter of an hour's rest.
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1:05:32 – 1:05:35
And then there was dinner together.
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And then my colleague looked at me and said,
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1:05:37 – 1:05:41
You can see that you don't want to be here right now.
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1:05:41 – 1:05:43
I thought, yeah, that's okay, too.
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1:05:43 – 1:05:45
That can be the case.
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1:05:45 – 1:05:49
Sometimes you don't want to be everywhere and still do it,
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Because it was planned that way.
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1:05:51 – 1:05:54
And it's nice when you take your time,
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1:05:54 – 1:05:56
Do something together.
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1:05:56 – 1:06:02
But it's just stressful to work with people all day long.
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1:06:02 – 1:06:07
Sometimes a level is reached.
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1:06:07 – 1:06:11
You earned your degree by blogging.
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1:06:11 – 1:06:13
I earned my studies with it,
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1:06:13 – 1:06:19
I did the computer work for tax advisors and lawyers.
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1:06:19 – 1:06:24
And then you are often invited to Christmas dinners or birthdays.
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1:06:24 – 1:06:26
And I sat there every time and thought,
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1:06:26 – 1:06:29
You don't want to be here. No.
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1:06:29 – 1:06:32
But this is a good customer, because you earn good money.
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1:06:32 – 1:06:36
You don't want to be here. No.
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1:06:36 – 1:06:38
Yes, that's true.
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1:06:38 – 1:06:41
You have to jump over your shadow in real life.
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1:06:41 – 1:06:44
And in real life, it's a bit harder than online.
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1:06:44 – 1:06:47
So also that I wrote with the Tanja soot,
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1:06:47 – 1:06:49
I would never have written them.
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1:06:49 – 1:06:51
No, I know exactly what you wrote.
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1:06:51 – 1:06:53
Wow.
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1:06:53 – 1:06:57
But then this conversation came about.
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1:06:57 – 1:07:01
I usually delete my Twitter chats after a certain amount of time,
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1:07:01 – 1:07:03
Because I always liked to keep everything clean and tidy.
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1:07:03 – 1:07:05
I understand you, yes.
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1:07:05 – 1:07:08
I think we wrote two years ago and it's still there.
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1:07:08 – 1:07:11
Yeah, I'm sure there's an asterisk behind it.
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1:07:11 – 1:07:13
Yeah, that's about.
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1:07:13 – 1:07:15
Seel and balm.
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1:07:15 – 1:07:17
Honestly, I'm also very happy,
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1:07:17 – 1:07:21
that I have the Thomas in the music project,
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1:07:21 – 1:07:24
He often writes to the people, the guests.
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1:07:24 – 1:07:27
Because I'm really hard at it.
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1:07:27 – 1:07:32
And when he writes to companies or musicians,
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1:07:32 – 1:07:35
so well-known people and who then promise,
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1:07:35 – 1:07:39
I'm always happy that Thomas is on board.
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1:07:39 – 1:07:42
And I take that work off of me.
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1:07:42 – 1:07:44
Yes, yes.
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1:07:44 – 1:07:48
You realize that I'm very eloquent
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1:07:48 – 1:07:50
I also like to talk and so on.
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1:07:50 – 1:07:54
But I have at that moment,
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1:07:54 – 1:07:56
I'm like a teenager.
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1:07:56 – 1:07:59
Yes, it's always the case with me that I think,
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1:07:59 – 1:08:04
I'm always afraid of being perceived as stupid.
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1:08:04 – 1:08:06
I don't know where this comes from.
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1:08:06 – 1:08:11
But if you, yes, don't know, do Abi and then study
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1:08:11 – 1:08:14
And then maybe work a little longer in the field or something.
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1:08:14 – 1:08:18
There are always people who can know more in the field and more.
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1:08:18 – 1:08:21
And somehow, I've always taken this to heart.
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1:08:21 – 1:08:23
And then you're in some position,
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1:08:23 – 1:08:26
Where to teach other people and what to teach them.
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1:08:26 – 1:08:29
And in the beginning it's incredibly stressful,
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1:08:29 – 1:08:31
Because, of course, there are always things you don't know.
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1:08:31 – 1:08:35
And there will be someone, almost always a question,
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1:08:35 – 1:08:39
Where you think I've never heard of it, I don't know.
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1:08:39 – 1:08:41
But I think you just have to get rid of it,
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1:08:41 – 1:08:45
You can be perfectly prepared in situations.
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1:08:45 – 1:08:47
Because that's not going to happen.
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1:08:47 – 1:08:50
There are always things you don't have on your screen.
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1:08:50 – 1:08:52
And it's not bad either.
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1:08:52 – 1:08:55
In the meantime, I'm just saying, you, I don't know.
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1:08:55 – 1:08:58
I don't know what that means.
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1:08:58 – 1:09:01
Feel free to check it out and then let me know.
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1:09:01 – 1:09:03
Because then I have some of it.
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1:09:03 – 1:09:07
But now I just admit it if I don't know something.
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1:09:07 – 1:09:09
And there the person can...
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1:09:09 – 1:09:11
It is also a kind of size.
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1:09:11 – 1:09:17
I remember how small I felt as a young doctoral student.
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1:09:17 – 1:09:21
At my first lecture, which I gave.
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1:09:21 – 1:09:22
Yes, yes.
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1:09:22 – 1:09:25
I had half a job at the university and then the professor,
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1:09:25 – 1:09:29
He always liked it when he sent people to the lecture hall.
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1:09:29 – 1:09:30
Well, of course.
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1:09:30 – 1:09:34
And then he did the things then where it related, had no buck on it.
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1:09:34 – 1:09:39
And then he sits there with such a bunch of young people and
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1:09:39 – 1:09:43
I felt so shit.
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1:09:43 – 1:09:45
That's right.
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1:09:45 – 1:09:47
So much room space.
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1:09:47 – 1:09:50
Yes, I fully understand.
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1:09:50 – 1:09:54
So it's really a stupid situation.
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1:09:54 – 1:09:58
And I feel like with every job change or every step in my career,
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1:09:58 – 1:10:01
The one you do, it is almost potentiated.
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1:10:01 – 1:10:03
Somehow, because you always do something new.
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1:10:03 – 1:10:06
And the older you are, the more experience you should have.
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1:10:06 – 1:10:09
But of course it's always a bit different somewhere else.
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1:10:09 – 1:10:12
And you don't stop learning.
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1:10:12 – 1:10:16
And actually, it makes it exciting.
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1:10:16 – 1:10:22
Life is a learning journey.
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1:10:22 – 1:10:26
Even at university, a friend of mine always said to me,
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1:10:26 – 1:10:28
Yeah, it's so crazy what you're doing by the way.
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1:10:28 – 1:10:31
Because I still had two jobs by the way.
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1:10:31 – 1:10:34
But I just thought, hey, I gotta do this.
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1:10:34 – 1:10:36
So this isn't crass at all.
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1:10:36 – 1:10:41
Actually, it's super shit, because I didn't get a bar guide.
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1:10:41 – 1:10:45
And yes, my parents have already supported me, but it wasn't enough.
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1:10:45 – 1:10:51
So I didn't see it as a great achievement now,
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1:10:51 – 1:10:55
But as a well, I have to stop so that I can finance my studies.
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1:10:55 – 1:10:59
And yes, they taught themselves WordPress.
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1:10:59 – 1:11:04
and how to deal with any plugins and how to write invoices and such things.
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1:11:04 – 1:11:10
But we also have the advantage, there is the Internet, you can just read everything.
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1:11:10 – 1:11:14
There are at least two tutorials for everything.
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1:11:14 – 1:11:18
Yes, definitely. That's true.
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1:11:18 – 1:11:20
That speaks to me from the soul.
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1:11:20 – 1:11:24
I mean, my parents made a lot of money, but they didn't have the money either.
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1:11:24 – 1:11:28
Something like over and yes, then you go to work.
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1:11:28 – 1:11:33
And I spent my weekends sitting in some offices
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1:11:33 – 1:11:41
and from Friday to Monday almost to remake the infrastructure or to date and so on.
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1:11:41 – 1:11:46
And while others have celebrated, I have just baked.
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1:11:46 – 1:11:48
Exactly.
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1:11:48 – 1:11:52
I mean, sometimes I really didn't do much, except pushing a button every once in a while.
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1:11:52 – 1:11:56
But it's time. It's just dead time.
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Yeah, but it's not just pushing the button.
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1:11:59 – 1:12:04
You have to know if and when and why you press this button.
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1:12:04 – 1:12:09
There's so much more in there than just the actual act of pushing a button.
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1:12:09 – 1:12:14
Or if you then update any tax preparer software and then have to check if that works,
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You have absolutely no idea about the program and absolutely no idea about these tax matters.
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And then you kind of make a case like that, and then you look like that, yeah, looks right.
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It could be.
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Yes, that's true.
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Same with googling.
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Whenever my mom can't do anything with her phone,
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She always comes, oh God, how do I do that?
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And I do, Mom, you know how to use Google.
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I would just googling now. I don't know everything either.
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Yes, I think this is a bit more tangible for our generation,
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That you can just look up as for another one about us.
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My mother had to work with the computer at work
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She did it as far as she had to.
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She is now slowly making friends with the smartphone.
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Very good.
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She's always afraid he'll break something.
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I mean, except you can't delete anything and you can't delete the internet.
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I just remembered it because my mother, when I was 16,
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so from 15, 16, 17, my mother has such a training course
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made by the employment office.
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HTML. I have no idea why she was in this class,
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But she learned HTML and I found it very exciting.
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And then I made a website for myself at Beep World.
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Exactly, I still know.
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It was hosted there and my first website was called Boyband World.
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I'm a huge boygroup fan and I had some kind of content about all the boybands.
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And I mean, that was 2000 something, so in the early 2000s.
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And already there I found it super exciting that she learned this.
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Then I took her learning materials and pushed around in this HTML code from Beep World,
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to do something else somehow.
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And yes, that was my first blog. That's true.
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My first blog was Lost Web.
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Oh my God, that was just a collection of some GIFs,
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They blinked around.
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Yes, and the mouse pointer is always followed somehow, when you have moved it.
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While I hadn't done that with the builder,
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I had a 10 megabyte space.
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And then it was all coded. Oh, my God, my God.
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All right, that's way beyond my ability.
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Yes, that's just … I'm a few days older and that was still quite fresh.
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In 1998, yes, we had our first DSL connection.
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Oh my God, the internet was fast.
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Before with ISDN, you could watch how the pages have built up.
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But now that I've set up the new blog,
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I really wanted to see if the shoutbox was still there.
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Yes, yes.
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I actually thought the concept was pretty good.
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They still exist, but only in certain themes.
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Because now it's this … They want to change everything to this …
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Sorry, it's getting a little nerdy now.
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On these blog themes, that you can assemble your own themes.
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Somehow they don't have this module in them yet.
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It was kind of cute to have such a quick line of comments.
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It was cute, yes. I thought it was good.
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Or were these … the hashtags, or were they the categories?
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Is it a cloud?
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Yes, keywords.
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Keywords, exactly, the hashtags.
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First of all, for some sites it was already so interactive,
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That when you picked one, it got bigger and stuff like that.
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But somehow it's not like that anymore.
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Today, all websites look the same.
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Yes, that's true.
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Yes, because you just buy some theme or take some free and of course they are all kind of similar.
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Yeah, but if you buy a theme like that now, you're kind of buying Avasa or Impreza right here, or whatever they're all called,
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You can do so much with it and yet they all just take those standard things.
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Yes, that may be.
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1:16:50 – 1:16:56
So I have for Calico's Diaries, this is the BDSM blog,
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I really picked out a theme that was designed from writing.
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Mh, it makes sense, too.
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Exactly, and now for Calico Tour, this is the lifestyle blog, also with the reports from New York,
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I have something that is a bit more focused on pictures so that you can also show something.
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A little magazine, huh?
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Exactly.
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This also makes sense if you have photos with a bit of text and so that you can tease like that.
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Yes, yes.
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1:17:25 – 1:17:29
But this is also a world of its own with blogging, isn't it?
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Yeah, sort of.
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1:17:32 – 1:17:36
So I think the great time of blogging is kind of over,
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because now is more like Instagram and TikTok or YouTube.
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1:17:46 – 1:17:51
But I don't have to worry about YouTube.
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1:17:51 – 1:17:55
I don't want to cut videos and I don't want to be on them.
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1:17:55 – 1:17:57
That's kind of not normal.
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1:17:57 – 1:18:02
I like to use YouTube, but to do something on my own, eh?
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1:18:02 – 1:18:09
I've also been making YouTube videos for a while and that's really recording it.
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That's work.
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1:18:10 – 1:18:16
That's all okay, but that's where you do the color grading and then you need a halfway decent graphics card,
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1:18:16 – 1:18:24
so that the rendering goes fast enough, because otherwise it takes forever.
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1:18:24 – 1:18:29
Yeah, and that's super nice on the podcast.
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1:18:29 – 1:18:34
I use Audacity to cut the stuff we record.
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1:18:34 – 1:18:36
It's super good, super easy.
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1:18:36 – 1:18:42
I don't try to cut too much, mostly just my elms out,
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Because if you really cut a soundtrack of yourself,
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Then you realize how often you use filler words.
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1:18:47 – 1:18:48
That's incomprehensible.
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1:18:48 – 1:18:52
And most of the time you can already recognize them by the rash.
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1:18:52 – 1:18:57
So I already see the soundtracks, see where my elms are.
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1:18:57 – 1:19:01
And yes, but that's pretty quick, and then it's ready to be cut.
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1:19:01 – 1:19:04
And you can upload it already, everything is good.
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1:19:04 – 1:19:07
Make videos with YouTube.
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1:19:07 – 1:19:12
And, for example, I don't want to constantly have my phone in my hand while traveling and film something.
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1:19:12 – 1:19:15
I want to see things with my eyes.
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1:19:15 – 1:19:18
That's enough if you take pictures like that and something like that.
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1:19:18 – 1:19:20
I didn't do that either.
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1:19:20 – 1:19:22
I've always sat in front of the camera,
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1:19:22 – 1:19:26
or in front of the mobile phone, because the cameras are now great,
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1:19:26 – 1:19:29
When there is enough light.
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1:19:29 – 1:19:31
I once said it didn't make sense.
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1:19:31 – 1:19:34
First, I had almost no clicks.
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1:19:34 – 1:19:40
Now I'm just posting my podcasts as a video and that's what YouTube does for me.
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1:19:40 – 1:19:43
That's enough.
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1:19:43 – 1:19:49
So that's another way of mirroring Spotify and what they're all called.
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1:19:49 – 1:19:54
Once upon a time, I stumbled upon the Podloft Publisher,
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1:19:54 – 1:19:57
That's what you use to deliver your podcasts.
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1:19:57 – 1:20:01
That's why I'm talking about this bubble from all these developers,
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1:20:01 – 1:20:08
Like the studio link we're talking about right now, and then the ultrasound.
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1:20:08 – 1:20:11
This is such an extended reaper.
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1:20:11 – 1:20:20
And I'm so grateful that these people are investing their free time to create these things.
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1:20:20 – 1:20:22
This is nothing commercial.
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1:20:22 – 1:20:26
That's why you had the warning from your firewall,
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1:20:26 – 1:20:35
Because it's too expensive for developers to license this telephony software at Microsoft.
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1:20:35 – 1:20:42
I mean, if you have a no-profit product where absolutely no money comes in,
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1:20:42 – 1:20:47
Why should I spend thousands of dollars to license the software?
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1:20:47 – 1:20:49
Yeah, that doesn't make sense.
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1:20:49 – 1:20:55
This is such a free community, these full-time developers,
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1:20:55 – 1:20:58
But those who develop these things in their free time.
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1:20:58 – 1:21:01
It's unbelievable what's being created.
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1:21:01 – 1:21:04
Yes, that's true.
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1:21:04 – 1:21:08
My friend is also a software developer.
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1:21:08 – 1:21:13
I told him what the problem was at work.
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1:21:13 – 1:21:15
And how cool it would be to have an app for it.
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1:21:15 – 1:21:19
And then I somehow had an app for it two days later.
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1:21:19 – 1:21:22
That's pretty impressive.
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1:21:22 – 1:21:25
He could just do it so directly.
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1:21:25 – 1:21:28
Now we want to make it a little more beautiful
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1:21:28 – 1:21:32
And I think other people can benefit from that, too.
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1:21:32 – 1:21:39
My ex had been working as an operator at a phone sex hotline for a while
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1:21:39 – 1:21:41
He almost took the men.
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1:21:41 – 1:21:44
He then passed it on to the caller.
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1:21:44 – 1:21:49
And then he did that search.
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1:21:49 – 1:21:57
So supposedly all real women, but in reality this is all rip-off.
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1:21:57 – 1:22:03
And then she had to, so that she would know with whom she had already written
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1:22:03 – 1:22:06
And about what, have a database.
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1:22:06 – 1:22:10
Then I quickly put together a database for her.
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1:22:10 – 1:22:13
And then give it to her and then, hey, that's all good.
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1:22:13 – 1:22:16
Zack, you could then quickly type in the data.
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1:22:16 – 1:22:20
'Cause it's stupid to say I'm from this town and the city
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1:22:20 – 1:22:24
and dwell in the quarter, or in the street,
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1:22:24 – 1:22:29
And the next time you talk to them on the phone, you're from another city.
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1:22:29 – 1:22:31
That's true.
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1:22:31 – 1:22:37
If you can do something like that, it's really helpful if you can put something together so quickly.
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1:22:37 – 1:22:39
Such small tools.
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1:22:39 – 1:22:43
Yes, above all it allows you to work remotely
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1:22:43 – 1:22:47
and no longer be fixed in a place of residence.
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1:22:47 – 1:22:50
That, of course, is a huge advantage.
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1:22:50 – 1:22:54
And if you're broadcasting this on the podcast, I mean this telephony software,
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1:22:54 – 1:22:57
You can hear for yourself how good that sounds.
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1:22:57 – 1:23:03
And everything else you've had, solutions like that, is just ….
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1:23:03 – 1:23:07
How much do you pay for Studio Link or is it free?
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1:23:07 – 1:23:09
It's all for nothing.
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1:23:09 – 1:23:12
You can, of course, if you want to have that with the names,
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1:23:12 – 1:23:15
As far as I'm concerned, you can pay.
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1:23:15 – 1:23:20
Then you pay a minimum of one euro or as much as you want or can.
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1:23:20 – 1:23:23
And otherwise, if you have that cryptic thing,
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1:23:23 – 1:23:27
As you have it, it's free.
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1:23:27 – 1:23:31
And if they do the same thing as you do,
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1:23:31 – 1:23:34
Then you can pick up each other's stuff.
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1:23:34 – 1:23:37
Cool, then this is definitely an option for us,
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1:23:37 – 1:23:40
Because we used Zencaster before,
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1:23:40 – 1:23:44
But Zencaster has also become chargeable.
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1:23:44 – 1:23:45
Yes, yes.
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1:23:45 – 1:23:50
And now we used Riverside last time, but we only had two hours.
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1:23:50 – 1:23:55
And I think the quality of Zoom and Skype is rather too bad.
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It's underground.
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1:23:57 – 1:23:59
Exactly, that's what I'd say.
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1:23:59 – 1:24:05
The great thing is, you can of course then, because this is just a professional software,
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1:24:05 – 1:24:11
which stops at the cut, this ultrasound,
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1:24:11 – 1:24:17
Of course, you can also use plugins to remove the sound on such pretty noise
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And you haven't seen it.
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1:24:19 – 1:24:23
Then you don't need any other external services, which in the end,
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1:24:23 – 1:24:26
If you have a lot of podcasts, it costs a lot of money.
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1:24:26 – 1:24:28
Yes, that's true.
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1:24:28 – 1:24:33
Yeah, well, now we've got an hour and a half full.
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1:24:33 – 1:24:37
And with us just came the food.
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1:24:37 – 1:24:39
Yeah, went around faster than I thought.
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Yes, and I ordered some food for Sophia of the day today.
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1:24:42 – 1:24:44
Oh, very cool.
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1:24:44 – 1:24:46
Yeah, I'm planning before we've podcasted,
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I had cleaned the balcony and then planted flower pots and so on.
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That's nice when you're sitting there.
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Is it still bright with you?
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No, it's dark now.
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1:25:01 – 1:25:04
Maybe it's still bright with you, but not here.
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1:25:04 – 1:25:09
No, it's getting dark here sooner, I'm afraid.
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1:25:09 – 1:25:11
That's why I ask so stupidly, because I can remember,
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When I was still living in Germany, it was sometimes bright until ten in the evening.
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1:25:16 – 1:25:19
Yes, but only in the summer.
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1:25:19 – 1:25:24
Yeah, it's been so long since I've been there.
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Yes, then I thank you for the nice conversation with you.
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Yeah, I'd love to.
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1:25:33 – 1:25:37
I'd be happy if you said it was cool.
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1:25:37 – 1:25:43
You invite yourself to one of your projects.
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1:25:43 – 1:25:48
Ey, you're a man, unfortunately.
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1:25:48 – 1:25:51
With the strong sex, you don't fit in enough.
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1:25:51 – 1:25:54
But maybe at Calico Skinky Talk, we can do that.
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1:25:54 – 1:25:59
Or maybe you'll do another project at some point, you never know.
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1:25:59 – 1:26:03
I started a podcast and now I have a lot.
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1:26:03 – 1:26:07
Yeah, but I don't know.
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1:26:07 – 1:26:11
So little time and so many ideas.
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1:26:11 – 1:26:13
And unfortunately I also have to write a master's thesis,
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It's been on my neck for half a year.
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1:26:16 – 1:26:19
And no one, no one, she writes for me.
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1:26:19 – 1:26:22
Chat GBT is not an option.
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1:26:22 – 1:26:23
No.
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1:26:23 – 1:26:26
I'm not afraid.
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1:26:26 – 1:26:31
Yes, but this sword has passed me by before.
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1:26:31 – 1:26:35
One or two times.
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I think the universities now have very good software to filter this out.
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1:26:39 – 1:26:43
Yes, it can be assumed.
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They're already getting that out of the university applications.
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1:26:47 – 1:26:51
Yeah, that can be good. That's true.
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1:26:51 – 1:26:55
Well, well, then I was very pleased.
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Supporters get early access to the podcast episodes
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1:27:01 – 1:27:04
before the actual publication.
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1:27:04 – 1:27:10
Other exclusive content such as preliminary or follow-up talks or a kind of diary.
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1:27:10 – 1:27:16
All information on how to become a supporter can be found in the show notes.
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1:27:18 – 1:27:24
Limiting, the borderline podcast.
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1:27:24 – 1:27:37
Controversial topics, heatedly discussed and beautifully packaged.
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1:27:40 – 1:27:48
Discuss heatedly with his guests in an exciting format.
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1:27:48 – 1:27:55
Definitely, the podcast.
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1:27:55 – 1:27:59
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Description:
In the current episode of Borderline, Sascha talks to the versatile Calico about social media, blogging and her recent travel experiences. Calico shares her views on Twitter (now X), the challenges and joys of blogging, and gives insights into her travels, including an unforgettable stay in the Caribbean. Experience an exciting discussion about the toxic sides of social media, the art of blogging, and the importance of authentic experiences. Don't miss this inspiring episode that is both educational and entertaining!
Outline of topics
- introduction
- Presentation of the podcast "Borderline"
- Welcome of the guest Calico
- Social Media
- Use of Twitter and the renaming to X-Zero
- Changes on Twitter and the Rise of Fake Accounts and Toxic Behavior
- Experience with bots and their impact on the platform
- Blogging and Podcasting
- Calico’s entry into blogging and podcasting
- Tips and Challenges for Blogging
- Authenticity and community interaction
- Discussion about the technical side of blogging and tools used
- Travel experiences
- Calico’s recent trip to the Caribbean
- Impressions and experiences in New York and the Bahamas
- Culinary highlights and blog posts about the trips
- Personal anecdotes
- Challenges in dealing with body image and self-confidence
- The balance between online and offline life
- Experiences and reflections on sporting activities and healthy lifestyle
- The Future of Blogging and Podcasting
- Thoughts and predictions on the future of blogging and podcasting
- New trends and developments in the social media landscape
- Final Thoughts
- Calico’s outlook on future projects
- Acknowledgement and Adoption
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Contributors to this episode
Sascha
Calico
Playing time: 1:27:59
Date of admission: 16.05.24
This episode is from season 4, there are a total of 4 seasons.
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