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I am someone who likes to be communicative and is on the Internet in different groups and forums, among others also in Flirt groups on Facebook and that's where the following happened to me last week.

As always, I was in a positive mood and commented on various posts from members of a flirting group and when I left a particularly cheeky and flappy comment, I got a private message a short time later.

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In this one, I was asked to refrain from posting my comment under posts by a certain member, the further one was said to me that she had met someone and already had to give funny answers why I would comment so much and so often under her posts.

The interesting thing about it was also that I used in my answer in just mentioned posting elements that were used in a post that is already a few days old.

This could imply closeness where there is none and one would have to explain oneself again and again to the newly met potential partner.

As part of this, I agreed to limit my activities or refrain from commenting in the future, only because I did not want to have stress or provoke stress.

Of course, you could think, what do I care if something is posted publicly, you also have to reckon with the fact that other people who might also be a future partner not be right answer to it and leave a comment that could not please those.

Problematic behaviour

On the other hand, I personally see the following, if already in a situation in which you would certainly never cross the path you have as a future partner of jealousy and stress or also, which causes the future partner how should it then in a relationship, in which you always have moments, where other people might take a look at the future partner, the reaction then still fail.

How extremely jealous must someone be who has absolutely no reason to react in such a way that the future partner must already ask other group members to refrain from future comments under their post, otherwise she would have to fear stress.

It would be an alarm sign to me that I have to reckon with pathological jealousy and everyone who has experienced something like this on their own skin knows how exhausting this can be if you have to constantly justify yourself for nothing, for accidental glances, unintentional smiles or any other misinterpretations towards others, I once had that I never want to experience this again.

A no-go

No matter how I turn and turn, it would be for me the absolute No-Go such behavior can not be tolerated or dismissed as a small cute seclusion that is already morbid and absolutely unjustified against the trigger and reason.

Because when I talked about it with an acquaintance who happens to be in this group, she looked at how often I would have commented on relevant people and also came to the conclusion that this would not even be so much.

I myself have also thought about it and found nothing to complain about except the way I comment, I am always a bit cheeky and funny sometimes also flappy and unfortunately, God, I have a wonderful memory that I can also incorporate content from past conversations in current conversations.

And if an answer from a past conversation or comment in the current comment can fit, then I like to use it and especially if it fits like a fist to the eye.

I had only been surprised by this reaction of the future partner and the action to write to me with the request to comment less or no more in the future.

Why do you do this with

Under what compulsion I have to stand, that I put such behavior on the day and also tolerate the behavior of the future partner.

Even if this were in many ways the ideal dream woman for me, this would still be the absolute that would not be possible such a massive character error, such a weakness can not endure or cope with a partnership in the long run.

What are your experiences or attitudes? On the above issue, it writes in the comments, I would be very pleased.

Your Sasha

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