What do I think about the age difference in a relationship?

‘Age does not protect against love, but love to a certain extent protects against age.’
Jeanne Moreau

A question that I have never really followed up with, I have never thought about whether it makes a difference to me whether my partner is younger or the same age.

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Fear of loss

‘Permanent fears of loss inevitably lead to losses.’
Justus Vogt

People who have been following me for a long time know that I am suffering from a borderline personality disorder and for these people one of the worst things that can happen is the fear of being abandoned, even if that is just a fantasy.

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What was it like getting to know each other again?

‘Love happens so seldom because most people have a scale of value, an image in their minds, with which they compare all the people they meet.’
Peter Lauster

What was it like 25 years ago and what is it like today? What has changed? The Emtycee He gave me this idea because he wanted to know my opinion.

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How was the funeral for me?

“If we could attend our own funeral, we would see our loved ones with very different eyes.”
Waltraud Puzicha

Now it's all been a few days and our father is buried. It was something that would have liked to happen only in 20 years, but to go with 68 years, well, that's just not an age in my opinion.

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