Is hate really the opposite of love? – Why the answer is more complicated than it seems

‘Philosophy and psychology show that: Those who hate don't let go. Real emotional distance only begins with indifference’

When people are asked about the opposite of love, there is often a word: hatred. The answer is a matter of course in everyday life. Love stands for affection, closeness and care, while hatred stands for rejection, hostility and distancing desires. At first glance, the matter seems clear. But is it really that uncomplicated?

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Overcoming inner emptiness and loneliness: When borderline feels like a hole inside

“Why inner emptiness can be so tormenting at Borderline – and how self-care, structure, creativity and secure connection can help.”

There are pains that can be easily explained to other people. A broken arm can be X-rayed, the plaster is the visible proof of the injury. A bleeding wound can be disinfected and connected. A loud dispute has concrete words, a loss has a clear name and a socially accepted time of mourning.

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