Two neurodiverse minds – A complete creative system

“How giftedness, ADHD and different ways of thinking form an unusually productive duo”

Creative processes are rarely linear.
They are the result of experience, thinking style, perception and personality.
For us - Sascha and Sarah - an additional level is added: Neurodiversityt, which does not make our cooperation more difficult, but makes it possible in the first place.

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The role of trauma bonding in relationships between people with borderline patterns and narcissistic patterns

“What trauma bonding is, how it arises – and how the exit can succeed”

1) Brief overview – what it is about

Trauma bonding describes an intense, elusive bond that arises in relationships with recurring cycles of stress and violence. It feels subjectively ‘magnetic’, but is Intermittent reward (periods of intense closeness) and sporadic injury (depreciation, Gaslighting, withdrawal) neurobiologically ‘wired’. When a person is strong Fear of abandonment (often with borderline patterns) and the other Control/superiority needs (often with narcissistic patterns) creates a cycle that entangles both: Proximity–pain–reconciliation–hope–relapse.

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How common are pedophilic tendencies – and are there differences between men and women?

“This article explains clearly and objectively how to distinguish pedophilia from hebephilia, how widespread such tendencies really are – and clears up common misunderstandings. Scientifically substantiated, explained in a comprehensible way and without a blanket conviction.’

A difficult issue – but important

Pedophilia is one of the biggest social taboos. Hardly any concept evokes such strong emotions – between disgust, fear and moral indignation. The more difficult it is to talk about it soberly and fact-based. But that is exactly what is necessary if we really want to understand what is behind the diagnosis – and how often it occurs at all.

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Borderline is not Borderline

"Why are so many men with Borderline not recognized?
Because anger, drugs and withdrawal do not fit into the classic picture.”

Why men are often affected differently than women – and what this has to do with the impulsive type

Many people immediately think of vulnerable, emotionally unstable young women in Borderline. But that is only part of the truth. Because the so-called Borderline personality disorder (BPS) is often very different for men – and is therefore often overlooked or misclassified. Even within the official diagnosis ‘Emotionally unstable personality disorder of the impulsive type“There are gender differences that are rarely addressed.

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