Overcoming inner emptiness and loneliness: When borderline feels like a hole inside

“Why inner emptiness can be so tormenting at Borderline – and how self-care, structure, creativity and secure connection can help.”

There are pains that can be easily explained to other people. A broken arm can be X-rayed, the plaster is the visible proof of the injury. A bleeding wound can be disinfected and connected. A loud dispute has concrete words, a loss has a clear name and a socially accepted time of mourning.

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Two with Borderline – How love succeeds despite scars

‘A testimonial of intense feelings, deep vulnerability – and the power of connection.’

What happens when two people with intense feelings, old wounds and a deep desire for closeness meet? An honest experience of relationship with Borderline – without romanticisation, but full of hope.

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Borderline is not Borderline

"Why are so many men with Borderline not recognized?
Because anger, drugs and withdrawal do not fit into the classic picture.”

Why men are often affected differently than women – and what this has to do with the impulsive type

Many people immediately think of vulnerable, emotionally unstable young women in Borderline. But that is only part of the truth. Because the so-called Borderline personality disorder (BPS) is often very different for men – and is therefore often overlooked or misclassified. Even within the official diagnosis ‘Emotionally unstable personality disorder of the impulsive type“There are gender differences that are rarely addressed.

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What to do if your partner has borderline personality disorder?

“What to do if your partner suffers from borderline? Learn how to show understanding, set boundaries and strengthen your relationship with practical tips for everyday life and helpful support services.”

The challenges that can arise in a relationship with a partner suffering from borderline personality disorder (BPS) are diverse and often very complex. This blog post is designed to give you a comprehensive insight into why it's so important to understand this disorder, how to accept it, and how to deal constructively with the challenges. Because only those who understand what is going on in the partner can help meaningfully.

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Self-injurious behavior in Borderline: A profound and informative insight

‘Borderline demystification: The fight against self-harm’

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1–2 minutes

Introduction: The Connection Between Borderline and Self-Injury

In the deep psychological consideration of the Borderline syndrome A particular phenomenon stands out: the Self-injurious behaviour. It is a classic, almost archetypal image that has manifested itself in our collective consciousness. When we hear the term ‘borderline’, we are almost inevitably confronted with the image of people harming themselves.

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Anxiety Disorders and Borderline Personality Disorder: An in-depth analysis of common symptoms and effective coping strategies

“Recognize and manage fear: A guide for people with intense emotional fluctuations’

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1–2 minutes

Introduction:

In my previous article, I discussed the connection between the Borderline Personality Disorder (BPS) and depression. Today I am adding another, often overlooked facet to the topic: the Anxiety disorders. These mental conditions are not only limited to BPS, but can also occur independently or in conjunction with other mental illnesses, such as: psychosis and neuroses, stand.

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Understand the borderline: Along the emotional abyss, navigating through the ups and downs of life

‘Worlds of emotion on the move: The journey through a life with Borderline’

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1–2 minutes

The journey through life, accompanied by the Borderline personality disorder, is undoubtedly characterized by a fascinating complexity. In these realms, many people have already lingered on this blog and reflected on some of my videos. Nevertheless, today the spotlights are to be focused on the profound challenges that accompany the intense emotional fluctuations and the seemingly endless emotional ascent and descent.

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The Challenge of Borderline Personality Disorder: Desperate attempts to escape abandonment

‘The fight against fear of abandonment: A glimpse into the world of borderline personality disorder”

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1–2 minutes

Introduction:

Borderline personality disorder (BPS) is a complex mental illness characterized by a variety of symptoms, including emotional instability, identity problems, and interpersonal difficulties. People with borderline personality disorder often suffer from intense fears of abandonment and use desperate attempts to escape that feeling. In this blog post, we will provide a comprehensive insight into this condition by shedding light on the various aspects that can lead to this behavior.

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